Parents'
attendance
In order to achieve the parents' necessary insight and motivation,
their presence during the therapy sessions is of great benefit.
In this
way, they become eye and ear witnesses of their child's thera- py
process, to a big part experiencing this process first-hand,
atten- ding as observers and not having to explain or justify their
behaviour directly and in person.
It is easier for parents to feel
sympathetic towards their child even in conflict situations, when witnessing
how the child really
feels about the present situation.
In short, it is a question of satisfying
the basic developmental needs of the child, as well as putting the
parents in the position
to recog- nize and fulfil these needs for their child, e.g. food,
support, protec- tion or boundaries.
Children need to feel that they are granted
an important place in their parents' lives. Then they can feel
that they are right and
they are wanted.
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